The Boy Who Does Not Want to Go to School (Separation Anxiety)
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Separation anxiety is the apprehension that the child (and often parents too) feel to let the other person.
Separation anxiety can be caused by a number of factors, one of which is an abnormal degree of closeness between child and parent and / or mother. This "over-proximity" to start when one parent is absent, or there is a significant disease in the family. In these cases, some children fear that something bad happen if you leave home.
Separation anxiety can be masked by a series of unexplained physical symptoms such as stomachaches or headaches that make parents leave the child to stay home and not go to school. Moreover, it is common for a child does not want to go back to school after being ill, preferring to extend the warm feeling of being cared for at home.
In exceptional cases, parents should consider whether there are other reasons why the child is unwilling to return to school. Anyway, back sooner, the better for the child: retraining will be harder as it loses classes. Often when the situation becomes normal, routine classes and peer interaction, disease symptoms disappear.
Parents should understand that going to school is an important step in the process of development and socialization of children. The road from protected childhood to independent and dependent responsible adulthood through school, and this is probably no substitute for education alternatives.
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| Author: PATTABIRAMAN RAMACHANDRAN 02 Oct 2009 | Member Level: Silver Points : 2 |
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No children will refuse to go to school on any reason. The reasons are just to afraid of seperation from parens;afraid about the teachers;etc., To avoid this you may initially make your child as friends to the neighbourhood children (of his age and school going) for playing etc., Day by day your child will defenitely start going to school with them.
Everything is in your (parents) hand - Do not beat/scold the child on any occasion.
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