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People seem to have forgotten how to be with other people. There is more conform in interacting with a computer. It does not make any demands, there are no expectations. You can turn it on or off depending on your mod. A computer does not have moods and needs that you have to cater to. If the machine does not function to expectation, or you are getting into a dysfunctional relationship with it, you can always get rid of it.
The problem is you cannot wish away the people co-existing with you at home and at work. At some point, you have to learn to relate to them, and get along with them. This process is not easy, because people have different attitudes, working styles, goals and moods.
Getting along with people means giving something of yourself, being friendly, showing concern, and being willing to do things for others. Getting along is what we need to work on because we affect someone’s life with our thoughts and actions, which, in turn, affects our life.
Through caring, we are benefited by the reward of others pleasure in being with us.
The process of using the head consists of logic and thinking, and the process of using the heart is based on feelings. Using head and heart, we can show others that we really care. Concern can be shown in different ways, but there are some basics to be covered. Be sincerer in this Endeavour.
Always treat others, as you would like to be.
Be interested in the other person. Rather than talking about yourself, direct the conversation to the other individual and his/her interest.
Remember names. To accomplish this, give attention to the other person, so that the name of the other person will get registered in your mind. A person’s name is important to him/her.
Don’t take yourself and everybody and everything seriously. Lighten up and let your sense of humour come through.
Be stimulating. If being with you makes people feel better, people will want to be with you; your personal relations will be excellent.
Sincerely make an attempt to heal every misunderstanding that you may have with other individuals. Forget grievances and maintain an attitude of goodwill towards everyone.
Perform outgoing acts of friendship. Sincere self giving leads to pleasant personal relations.
Resist the temptation to spread gossip in order to fit in or get ahead.
Be polite and respect the moods of others. You are not the only one who is entitled to have a bad mood.
Don’t show off or try to impress your fellow beings. However clever you think you are, people will come to know of it. In short, you determine how others accept you and deal with you. It is not the other way around. The magic is the more you share your care, concern and consideration of other people, the more you receive it from all round you.
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