#335911 Author: Bhagat Singh Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 0 Date: 26/Jul/2012 Rating:  Points: 5 |
I am completely against live in relation from the very begining. It is destroying our 5000+ years long culture.
In our culture there are tradition so called "Rasam-Riwaz" for everything like the rasam for new born baby, for his naming ceromany, his marrage, his death etc.
It is not right to ruin those thing just because of some experiments. Even many foreign countries adopted new way of living and now they are focus less. We must preserve our culture, tradition and custom with us.
Also there are many drawbacks in live in relationship. It always gives loss to female (mentally, physically & socially). Male always got acceptance of society after live in relation but female suffer a lot against society.
It also hurts more when in Live in relation one got notice that with whom he /she is living is no more interested in them and even no love exist. This things hurts a lot at it becomes the case of one side love.
So better to accept one and live the whole life with him/her.
With warm regards,
Bhagat Singh
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| #335912 Author: Ankur Garg Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 0 Date: 26/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 4 |
According to me live in relationship is not a bad thing. However I don't think it is a kind of must to start a relationship like marriage. The thinking of today's youth is a bit complicated unnecessarily and that's why they think that risky method like live in relationship is going to help them big way to find their soul mate.
Further over a period I have learnt that couples are kind of misusing this method for the purpose of mental and physical enjoyment. One thing is sure couple using this method should be careful as far as respect of each other is concerned.
Warm Regards
Ankur Garg
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| #335922 Author: Ankita Sinha Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 0 Date: 26/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 4 |
Society is composed of certain values and ethics and even supreme court has given green signal to live in relation But for me it is not good in any aspect. Indecision is the major outcome of this. Society's one of major foundation base is marriage and its completely denying it in one or the other form. It hampers the ethical behavior in a society. The concept of loyalty, commitment and seriousness of marriage is deteriorating by this. Further its not a freedom to live life in your own way rather its indecision in your life. For me its bad and will hamper the future generation.
Change is the only constant.
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| #335924 Author: Vikram Narang Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 0 Date: 26/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 5 |
We learn from our elders. The behaviour of present generation regarding marriage will definitely impact the thinking of future generation about the same. But one cannot say that it will destroy their thinkig about marriage. Point about which we should ponder is the way of their living before marriage. We are Indians and we are losing our culture day by day. We are adopting western culture. No one would like an unmarried couple staying together in a flat for having the tatse of marriage, for understanding each other and to see whether they are comfortable with each other or not .
Yes, its true we should know each other before marriage but not in a above mentioned way. For every work there is some limit and everyone need to follow that to live peacefully.
A good society never would never allow their children to live in relationship.
So, in order to retain our culture we should not allow such practise to take a shape of new culture.
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| #335999 Author: SEKHAR HALDER Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 0 Date: 26/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 5 |
Live in together relationship is not good for our Indian society even now. This type of relations came from the yestery culture. It's not Indian culture. Marriage is a holy relation that approved our society well. Marriage helps to grow relation between two unknown or known families together. And established a social status also. It may seen that an arrange marriage is far better than a love marriage. In arrange marriage, the number of breakups and divorce is so rare. But in love marriage, the number of breakup and divorce is huge than arrange marriage. And in todays live in relationship, it really destroys the mentality of good relationship. And so the number of breakups are also very high in that case. Because, this relation creats a complex between them. In that case both of them leave their own family. So leaving their family members and living in a completely seperated envioroment, the good relationship may never exists. So, I think marriage is the best relation in the world, not the live in relation.
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| #336015 Author: Ankit Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 48 Date: 26/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 3 |
Depends on your way of thinking. What a couple do in their private life is not something on which society should try to push their thinking. If the couple have no problem then what right does a society have to interfere inside their house?
On the other hand is goes against the ethics of our society but then culture and ethics are dynamic in nature and as I have said before, society will always show resistances to any changes with it but slowly and steadily, it learns to accept it.
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| #336163 Author: Nikhil Saini Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 0 Date: 27/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 5 |
I am completely against of live in relationship. . In this concept two persons live in a same place and share everything, except of bad. This concept has come from west. It is very embarrassing time in that our young couples adopting this concept. We can say that Its a Pre-marriage stage in which couples check their compatibility that this relationship could be convert into marriage or not. Live in relationship is like a virus which is making as hole in our society culture
It can be good in some cases. It gives an opportunity to understand a couple to each other, generally couples directly bonded in marriage and after some time it became the cause of divorce because they didn't understand each other. There is need to give a chance to a girl and boy to understand each other perfectly before the marriage.
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| #336176 Author: SuN Member Level: Platinum Member Rank: 16 Date: 27/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 5 |
For Indians, Chastity is one of the important aspect like wealth that a girl should possess. By getting into live-in relation ship the girl will lose her chastity. If the live in relationship doesn't go well and doesn't pave way for proper marriage, the girl is said to have lost her chastity which is an important possession of a girl to be preserved and gifted to her life partner. Then there is no difference between a Human being and an animal. Live-in relationship should not become a testing ground for marriage. That will ruin our culture. Girls will lose their respect in our society. This culture may be fit for the westener who has least interest in the family Value. Indians have one for one only. We can not shift away from the existing system. I hate to bring in live-in relation ship for young generation.
I would welcome this live-in relationship to those old ladies and guys who lost their husband or wife and wish to have someone for their life.
No life without Sun
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| #336178 Author: Chitra Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 0 Date: 27/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 4 |
I won't say live-in relationships are bad but in my personal life I do not prefer it. I know a couple who lead a live in relationship for 6 years and then got married. According to me the difference between a marriage and live in relationship is that, in marrige you try to adjust more because hardly anyone prefers divorce, but with live-in relationship,you are just checking out whether this will be the right person for you and if you find he/she is not then you always have an option to break-up.
Regards
Chitra
"Do not give up, things might not favour you always"
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| #336191 Author: Kokil Kumar Sarma Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 0 Date: 27/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 2 |
Dear Veena,
There is nothing good in Live in relationship.This is wastage of time if we discuss about good or bad in live in relationship as there is nothing good in this.
With Best Regards,
Kokil
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| #336207 Author: Abhipsa Mishra Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 0 Date: 27/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 5 |
Marriage is an eternal negotiation. Indian culture sticks back to some social norms, customs, traditions that we are following since ages. Before comparing a marriage with a live-in relationship one must understand his expectations and responsibilities towards such a relationship and the social and ethical views of the society they live in.
Earlier there used to be a custom of getting married in the same community, same cast. But these days a lot of families do not believe in such customs and traditions. Some couples choose to keep their marriage very simple. They go for court marriages in the presence of their very near and dear ones. This is also accepted in our society. I do not feel there is anything bad in a live-in relationship unless the couple is that determined to face the resistance from the society and their own family and are ready to continue their relationship with full respect and trust for each other. For Indians live in relationship is very new. Although it is legalized people in general are yet to accept it. There are people (especially youngsters) who take live-in not so seriously and they break up with their partner as easily as they enter into a relationship. I think this is the reason why our society doesn't accept this kind of a relationship.
A person, his character gets reflected from his cultural upbringing. I do not oppose a live-in relationship but i believe a marriage makes the bond more stronger. It binds not only two human beings but two families. two cultures.
Personally, if asked I would have denied for a live-in relationship but i think there is no problem in a live-in if the couple is serious about their relationship. It should never be taken up as a trial and error method to test the relationship.
Regards,
Abhipsa
"The best way to predict the future is to create it"
Regards,
Abhipsa
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| #336216 Author: Abhipsa Mishra Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 0 Date: 27/Jul/2012 Rating: Points: 1 |
Mr. Sun,
I really respect and admire your suggestion in #336176. Live-in can help aged singles.
Regards,
Abhipsa
Regards,
Abhipsa
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