| Author: Prateek Dave 06 Jul 2009 Member Level: Gold Points : 4 (Rs. 1) Voting Score: 0 |
Hi Monsa
Yes, they do change. First of all a sense of responsibility, even far more than after marriage, comes in. Just like motherhood, fatherhood too is a gift and so husbands welcome it whole heartedly.
Fatherhood brings loads of changes in a husband. He becomes more caring towards his family and especially towards his wife. A soft corner emerges in him as he realizes that a small child needs delicate care. His approach towards lie changes as now he knows that they are not just two people anymore. In some cases husbands become emotional too, depending on different conditions. Wives might be amazed to find such kinda change in their hubbies.
Prateek
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| Author: Ranjith 06 Jul 2009 Member Level: Bronze Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
Change is a part and parcel of life, interests and behaviour changes regularly based on the environment we live in.
Not sure what you meant to ask exactly, but changes are common.
Some become more responsible and caring, where as some look for new tastes in life. My only answer is it depends on the way you take care and treat your husband.
Regards,
Ranjith
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| Author: Dr.Sanjeev(Sandy) 06 Jul 2009 Member Level: Platinum Points : 3 (Rs. 2) Voting Score: 0 |
Yes, I think so. Though it all depends on the individual, but a sense of responsibility have a great impact on one's life. Then merely a child's birth will not automatically create that sense. In many case if huspand is of different attitude, the wife should handle it very carefully and try to develop an intimate bond with the baby ad his/her father.
In case of female it is different story, keeping the baby in the womb for 9 month itself forms the intimate bond, but father in some circumstances have to develop that feeling of care and responsibility.
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| Author: padmav 07 Jul 2009 Member Level: Silver Points : 4 (Rs. 2) Voting Score: 0 |
Things have taken a positive twist in the past couple of years and men have started enjoying fatherhood and willing to share the responsibilities that come with it. While there may be exceptions, I have seen many helping their wives change diapers, take turns looking after the baby at night, accompany them in their monthly visits to doctor etc. I have seen the other extreme too...non cooperative, irresponsible husbands highly insensitive to wive's pain ..may be a loving father, but a bad husband..
It all depends on the ambience in which the husbands have grown...if they have been brought in a restrictive male dominated family where there is lack of respect for womanhood..their attitude would more or less reflect it in their approach towards the mother and they may consider any explicit display of affection to the child degrading ..
But still , i can see light at the end of the tunnel, husbands are changing for the better probably due to 'both partner working scenario ' these days.
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| Author: [Anonymous] 23 Jul 2009 Member Level: Gold Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
after child's birth, all the attention both of mother and father gets diverted to that child. Mother may not have time for her husband as before. This may create drift between husband and wives.
I mean if husband feels neglected, he may or may not get attracted elsewhere to fulfill his needs.
there is some change always in relationship after child is born,
but my tip is you have to still keep on doing some things as before to keep your relationships stronger
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| Author: Debasish 23 Jul 2009 Member Level: Silver Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
The answer is yes.But it varies from person to person.It even depends on the situation in the home.For the husbands,father-hood comes with lots of added responsibilty.If no is there at home to take care of the new born(say it is a neuclear family),he has to cope up with the pressure of professional as well as family life.This is one advantage of joint family.If you are working couple,you have to run from your office if there is an emergency hospital admission of your child.So it is always advisable for both the husband and wife mentally before planing for a child.
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| Author: ashok 23 Jul 2009 Member Level: Silver Points : 1 Voting Score: 0 |
Yes, they changes, because responsiblities increases, Also today maximum families are nuclear families, so that attention of father and mother both are diverted to child. The situation does not occur in joint family.
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| Author: yash 24 Jul 2009 Member Level: Silver Points : 1 Voting Score: 0 |
CHANGE IS A LAW OF LIFE.
My Answer is yes they do change.
Not because of they are not careing about baby but because they are in new responsibilities and it is not possible to them to manage all the things.
And also it depends on person to person. Every person has different attitute.
Regards
yash
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| Author: Jyoti Malhotra 27 Jul 2009 Member Level: Diamond Points : 5 (Rs. 4) Voting Score: 0 |
It is a natural phenomena as the situations changes in our life our behavior also changes. Be it a male or female, as a female you become mother and your priorities inlife changes totally.You are more inclined towards your newly born child and your full time attention is towards your child. Others in the family comes after your child. Similarly, males also become father and their responsibilties have increased as they have to look for the future of the newly born and his attention is automatically diverted towards the same. He becomes more concerned about the income and tries to save as much as he can for the future of his child. It makes him more and more concerned about the funds to be increased to make the better future for his child. So it is but natural that the attitude of males changes after baby's birth similarly as females do...not to be taken as a surprise ...it is but natural
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| Author: Prabin Singh 11 Aug 2009 Member Level: Silver Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
Hi,
yes the attitude changes as some one more special comes to the family who was being waited for nine month, he/she should be given more love and caring.So it is natural that there will be a change in everyones behaivor.
but it is not that the husband love reduces from his wife but actually it increases more and more day by day.
So it should not be taken in any ways wrong.
Thanks,
Prabin Singh.
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